GIRLS: HIDDEN CAMERAS AND SEX GAMES.

In recent times I have come across many scandals in some tabloids about sexual escapades that involved some notable celebrities in the past but these days, one doesn’t need to pay any junk reporter to publish such blackmails any more .You can just simply use a camera phone and the next minutes the whole world is seeing everything on the social media without being mindful of the serious damage this must have caused the victim.

It happened to one popular actress and if not that she was involved with a white man who went ahead and married her, she would have been in total mess. The question for the ladies is why will you give out your nude pictures to your boy friends? Why would you allow your mere boy friend to be taking your nude pictures from all angles without you taking his own nude pictures? Why would you allow a man to record you’re sucking him and you didn’t record him when he is heading you? A man will always   have a second chance in most relationships but ladies find it very difficult to have a second chance.

Please ladies, “let’s go out” with a boy friend is different from “let go in “as husband and wife. I have seen recently what looks like Chidinma  the new singing sensation on a sex tape, I felt bad, what if this is true, who is that Nigerian man that will close his eyes and take her as a wife. I am from the Ibo nation and our wives are regarded as our pride may be the same thing applies in other tribes. Irrespective of that, why would  a sane girl  get so exposed over a temporary relationship like this ,even if the man is your husband won’t you have some level of reservations in case anything happens to that relationship?

Most times ladies like those who tell them lies instead of facing reality and for the very fact that they usually have a mind set of what they want from a relationship which might be deceitful without being mindful that over 85 percent of men are hunters.

Are you aware that the casual relationships you have been enjoying might one day play back on you? Just recently a lady’s sex video was sent to the fiancé few days to her wedding and that is supposed to be the real man she wants to spend the rest of her life with. One can assume that there might be a hidden camera, only God knows why some men are so mean and heartless with such nasty revelations.

Ladies! Are you I blame in most cases? We know that the economic hardship prompt taking some decisions, to gain some favors, but you must be careful that you should not expose yourself to what will hunt you all your life. “Love is not enough for all I know”. No one is looking for a virgin as a wife or husband because you will search endlessly, have fun as much as you can but don’t leave your traces worse, because you have to beware of anything going viral on the social media.

 For guys, who care, for girls, we care.

... by Hope Opara