One
mistake you should never make in life, is to allow yourself to be recruited by
someone, to hate another person who hasn't wronged you.
Hear
this: *“ We must avoid taking hasty conclusion because of what others are
saying about someone else.."*
What
people say about others, says a lot about them. I am repeating this more
directly: The things you say about others, says a lot about you! I can tell a
lot about a person by what they choose to see in others.
*CHARACTER
ASSASSINATION* is a pervasive and destructive phenomenon that is found
everywhere. You find it in *FAMILIES, POLITICAL ARENA, PLACES OF WORSHIP,
ORGANIZATIONS, WORK PLACES, NOLLYWOOD etc.*
*CHARACTER
ASSASSINATION* is the deliberate, malicious, unjustified and sustained effort
to damage the reputation or credibility of an individual.
There
are people that take maximum delight in ruining other's reputation. These set
of people have what I call *‘Destructive Tendencies’.* they oil their own ego
by pulling other people down through allegations.
False
allegations are the most chronic form of mental abuse. When people can’t kill
your dreams and purpose, they will try to assassinate your character. Once they
realize hating you isn’t working they start telling and spreading lies about
you.
People
are assassinated once but *‘Character Assassination’* kills daily! Character
assassination is a form of emotional violence against others.
Someone
once said, *“A friend of my enemy is my enemy.”* I disagree with that
statement. A friend of your enemy is not necessarily your enemy; it all depends
on intentions and contributions. One of the things that hinders us from living
a fulfilling and inclusive life is bringing *past bias and sentiments into
present relationships.* God can use your enemy’s friend to bless you!
Stay
away from people who talk bad about others daily; these kind of people carry a
negative spirit, and a negative spirit is contagious. The real problem is not
that they are unhappy about others, but they are unhappy with themselves.
“ It is a very malicious news that a former commissioner stopped a former governor from supporting an industry platform because the organizer is not from their demography. What a shame especially when the purported commissioner knows the film industry in and out."
Stop
the destructive habit of talking about people behind their back. Talking badly
about someone else while they aren’t there to defend themselves says more about
you than the person you’re talking about. When you have issues with people, try
and discuss it with them. Stop discussing it with others. Someone once said,
*“Don’t talk about me until you have talked to me”.* Stop spreading false information
and rumors about others.
Remember
that *Rumors are carried by haters, spread by fools and accepted by
idiots!*
*Avoid
ENVY and JEALOUSY. Everyone has a different destiny.*
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Character assassination will always have consequences against perpetrators. Very
good reason this article need to be
published. Time
will tell.
