CHARACTER ASSASSINATION IN NOLLYWOOD

 

One mistake you should never make in life, is to allow yourself to be recruited by someone, to hate another person who hasn't wronged you.

Hear this: *“ We must avoid taking hasty conclusion because of what others are saying about someone else.."* 

 What people say about others, says a lot about them. I am repeating this more directly: The things you say about others, says a lot about you! I can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to see in others.

 *CHARACTER ASSASSINATION* is a pervasive and destructive phenomenon that is found everywhere. You find it in *FAMILIES, POLITICAL ARENA, PLACES OF WORSHIP, ORGANIZATIONS, WORK PLACES, NOLLYWOOD etc.*

 *CHARACTER ASSASSINATION* is the deliberate, malicious, unjustified and sustained effort to damage the reputation or credibility of an individual. 

There are people that take maximum delight in ruining other's reputation. These set of people have what I call *‘Destructive Tendencies’.* they oil their own ego by pulling other people down through allegations. 

False allegations are the most chronic form of mental abuse. When people can’t kill your dreams and purpose, they will try to assassinate your character. Once they realize hating you isn’t working they start telling and spreading lies about you.

 People are assassinated once but *‘Character Assassination’* kills daily! Character assassination is a form of emotional violence against others.

 Someone once said, *“A friend of my enemy is my enemy.”* I disagree with that statement. A friend of your enemy is not necessarily your enemy; it all depends on intentions and contributions. One of the things that hinders us from living a fulfilling and inclusive life is bringing *past bias and sentiments into present relationships.* God can use your enemy’s friend to bless you!

 Stay away from people who talk bad about others daily; these kind of people carry a negative spirit, and a negative spirit is contagious. The real problem is not that they are unhappy about others, but they are unhappy with themselves.

“ It is a very malicious news  that a former commissioner stopped a former governor from supporting an industry platform because the organizer is not from their demography. What a shame especially when the purported commissioner knows the film industry in and out." 

 Stop the destructive habit of talking about people behind their back. Talking badly about someone else while they aren’t there to defend themselves says more about you than the person you’re talking about. When you have issues with people, try and discuss it with them. Stop discussing it with others. Someone once said, *“Don’t talk about me until you have talked to me”.* Stop spreading false information and rumors about others.

 Remember that *Rumors are carried by haters, spread by fools and accepted by idiots!* 

 *Avoid ENVY and JEALOUSY. Everyone has a different destiny.*

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Character assassination will always have consequences against perpetrators. Very good reason  this article need to be published. Time will tell.